Congruent Joy

Insight

• Challenges of Abundance

• How To Help Someone Find Insight

• Evaluating Advice

• Sorting Out What You Want

• Choosing the Most Important Thing

• How to Get Your Brain Undepressed

• What Does Your Project Want?

• Letting Go of a Mental Block

• How To Move On From a Mistake

• The Tyranny of “Should”

Relationships

• How to Give a Great Hug

• Requests, Offers, Invitations, and Demands

• Honoring Sorrow

• When a Friend Is Unhappy That You Don't Love Them Back

• Covert Cruelty

Fiction

• Caterpillar

Sexuality and BDSM

• Dimensions of Kink and BDSM

• Kink is Healthy… and Wholesome!

• What is BDSM?

• What’s a Fetish?

• Setting Boundaries in BDSM

• Safe, Sane, and Consensual

• BDSM as Emotional Exercise

• Two Systems of the Mind

• How to Have Confidence As a Top When Doing Something New

• How to Satisfy Your Partner Without Doing What They Want

• Empathy As a Top and Overreach

• Psychological Subspace